What is important to us prostitutes

Men have been buying sex for hundreds of years. Brothel prostitution on our continent can be traced back to the 12th century.
However, it is still not accepted in society today. It is considered immoral and sex workers are ostracised.
Although there are now many countries in which it is legal or tolerated to 'procure', prostitutes are socially marginalised. Even if they pay taxes in this country, have health insurance and must first obtain a licence to carry out their work, this does not change anything. They are rejected by the general public.

Less discrimination / equality
It is not easy to find accommodation and take out insurance as a prostitute, and it is almost impossible to be recognised by your own family for this activity. This is why many have to hide their work. Sex workers want more fairness and social recognition.

"Please stop the debates about banning or restricting prostitution for our own protection, as in the constantly discussed Nordic model, where the use of sex services is a criminal offence. Finally recognise our profession. Stop marginalising us and ensure justice. It is unacceptable that we pay taxes but are not treated equally to other workers."

Put an end to criminal prejudices
"Stop pointing a generalised finger at us and the sex trade and portraying it to the outside world as if violence and exploitation were the order of the day in our profession. That is not the case! " Make a clear distinction between criminal human trafficking and independent, self-determined work in prostitution. Make a clear distinction between pimps and clients. Sometimes it seems as if hypocritical public doubters are just trying to make a name for themselves.

More respect
"We would like to see more appreciation from you, dear customers. Many of you are welcome guests who behave decently and politely from start to finish. Just as you have expectations of us, which we try to fulfil, we also have wishes for you. Mutual respect is very important to us!"

Speak openly and in a friendly manner about your wishes
"This helps to clarify in advance what we are prepared to do and what we are not. You have to accept a no, because each of us has defined our own clear boundaries. No price negotiations! You want closeness, tenderness, security, intimacy and the odd extra. We are usually prepared to fulfil these desires. So don't start haggling over the price. A good service has its price. "

Don't expect more than you paid for
You should get the time you booked and the service you agreed on. As long as you don't misbehave. A longer time together and the fulfilment of further wishes are not included. Please don't forget that.

Cleanliness
"Personal hygiene is particularly important to us. If you haven't had a chance to shower beforehand, you can do so with us before we get down to business. Clean, washed hands, trimmed fingernails, oral hygiene and a well-groomed body, especially a clean private area, are what we offer you and expect from you."

What we don't like
"Nobody likes to invite drunk or otherwise drugged visitors in the door, not even us. Come to us sober and you are welcome."

Absolute no-go

• Asking for sexual intercourse without protection.
• Secretly removing the condom.
• Insulting words
• Rudeness & violence
• Stalking