
Everyone knows a dominatrix and everyone associates this term with a strict woman. But there is also the dominus! These are men who slip into the role of the dominatrix and take on her role. But what exactly makes a dominatrix and how can you slip into their role and become a male dominatrix? myLADIES will tell you.
The term dominus translates from Latin as "master of the house". There are also two areas in which a DOM intervenes. On the one hand, there are professional male dominas who finance their lives in this way, and on the other hand, there is also a DOM in private sexual relationships who has a connection to a SUB. Professionally, the Dominus is active on many fronts, so it is not possible to define exactly how you become a Dominus. To summarise, a dominus, just like a dominatrix, achieves pleasure by chastising, educating, insulting and humiliating their counterpart.
3 FACTS ABOUT A MALE DOMINATRIX
#1: A dominatrix is a male dominatrix for women and men
A dominatrix is very versatile. He not only works for women, but also for men. In most cases, he even has more men than women clients. This is due to the fact that female subs are usually more interested in private contact, but this can also be different. Who he offers his bizarre services to is entirely up to him.
#2: Sex only plays a minor role with a dominatrix
A real dominatrix only offers sexual intercourse very rarely and in exceptional cases. It's a little different here than with dominatrices. Here, the focus is more on physical education, such as working with whip tools, paddles and floggers, as well as verbal humiliation and use for physical services. The services offered by a dom can vary greatly.
#3: Commercial vs. private activity
When a dominatrix or a dominus goes about their business, this always says something about their sex life. Some are more reserved in their private lives, while others have already been born as dominatrices.
3 REQUIREMENTS TO BECOME A REAL DOMINUS:
1. Dominance - don't be shy and raise your voice to strangers.
2. Anatomical knowledge - as slaves are often physically educated and humiliated, basic knowledge is of great importance here to avoid injuries.
3. The right ambience - nothing works without the right equipment. As a rule, no slave brings their own torture tools. If you don't have your own studio, you can use other studios by renting them.
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