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Nothing is worse than embarrassing dirty talk, nothing can bring the situation to the highest or lowest level faster. Today, the myLadies editorial team will tell you how to get her or you hot with the right words.
Dirty talk not only boosts the ego, but also creates the right mood and fires each other up. Because we all know that sex takes place in the brain. It's about keeping images in your head to stimulate the imagination. What's more, dirty talk shows what you're really into and increases the anticipation of sex, which in turn raises the arousal level.
Whether it's a short affair, a one-night stand or a long-term relationship, if you get the dirty talk right, you can really heat things up. It doesn't just work in bed, but also from anywhere. Dirty talk also works over the phone and can take place in many different ways. Whether in a personal conversation with an Escort from Lucerne, via sex chat with an erotic model from Zurich or via sex cam with a hot Latina from Baselit doesn't matter at all. The important thing is that it's real and authentic. Dirty talk is about letting go of inhibitions. If you talk about it briefly, it's much easier to let go of your inhibitions later during sex or in practice.
Varied, imaginative language is best suited to dirty talk. This can even lead to developing an erotic story together. There are also key words, i.e. if you know a person well, you can raise their arousal level very quickly. This can then always be used in a targeted manner.
It always helps if you slowly try and feel out what fantasies or desires your sexual partner has. Once you know this, you can choose your words accordingly. But as we all know, no master has fallen from the sky.
There are three forms of dirty talk:
- The descriptive kind: e.g. "I like the way you run your hands along my body, then run your hands down my trousers and just grab it!" Simply formulate what is happening and what you want.
- Appreciation: Here you tell your sex partner that he or she looks really good or that they have nice breasts or that their backside is so sexy and what you would like to do with them. This not only boosts your ego, but also creates the right mood and fires each other up. Because we all know that sex takes place in the brain.
- The request or surrender: "Do what you want with me!" That would be the passive role, the other would be the active role of telling her what the other person should do. "Suck my cock", "Take it deep in your mouth" or "Ride my cock as hard as you want!"
Be decisive! Just say what you want and how you need it.
No go's with dirty talk:
Dirty talk must of course please both partners and this naturally includes treating each other with respect, even if the dirty talk itself sounds very hard and dirty. Nevertheless, inappropriate remarks or insults belong there.
Trivialisations are also out of place here. If you have known each other for a long time, then you know what the other person likes and dislikes. Therefore, avoid words that your sexual partner does not like, because we want the level of arousal to increase and not decrease.
Faeces, violence or even fetishes could also be a "no go". Some like it, some don't want it. Things simply need to be clarified before you open the door.
I hope we were able to give you some ideas and wish you lots of fun trying out dirty things. If you like, please write to us and tell us your dirty thoughts, which words you use and what is your "no go" for you.
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